Self-confidence is the belief in one’s own abilities, qualities, and judgment. It’s the foundation of a positive self-image and plays a crucial role in how we navigate the world. I always try my best to be confident. Every time in college and university I was ready to take any presentation, or opportunity to speak, and voluntarily stand up to explain topics in front of the class to overcome fear and become more confident. After that when I come into professional life the struggle is the same. Back in student life, I was afraid of making mistakes in front of people and questioned my judgments. I thought if anything didn’t go well, that defines me as a failed person, and what other people think about me that push severe pressure and makes my mind numb, unable to comprehend what I have to think and say at that moment.

In my professional life, I learn how to be more confident. Nobody cares about our mistakes. People forget the very next moment, but we doubt ourselves. As a front desk officer whenever I came across people I realized there is nothing to be afraid of. I realized a lot of good talented people were just rejected during the interview due to a lack of confidence. The first thing that inspire me and left a huge impact is the other person’s confident and positive attitude.

Affirmations, appreciation, a sense of accomplishment, achievement of goals, and support from people (superior) around you are directly linked to self-confidence. There is nothing else that kills the confidence of a person as criticism of a superior. I never criticize or degrade anyone. As I believe confidence is top-tier quality a person can possess.

”The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence. “Blake lively

Self-confidence

Self-confidence means believing in your judgments, capabilities, abilities, goals, and success. it is about your self-image, and self-worth, standing for your rights, coming out of your comfort zone, valuing yourself, and self-reflection on whether you can achieve something or not. How you determine yourself, your worth regardless of imperfection or what other people think about you. You understand that your weakness changes your worth yourself you work on that weakness with a positive mindset. Just as Rumi said:

“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your myth.”  

Confidence helps us to move forward, experience life events without hesitation, and take chances and risks without fear of failing, you know you can try again, it is the process of learning. you work hard for yourself and get what you want even if you have to stand alone. Nothing extraordinary was ever achieved by people who have self-doubt. Low self-confidence impairs the function of the mind and body.

Importance of self-confidence:

Self-confidence is a key quality that leads to success in various aspects of life. It not only makes you feel better but also helps you take risks, voice your beliefs, pursue your dreams, and achieve success. Recognizing the benefits of self-confidence is the first step to enhancing it.

5 ways to improve self-confidence

1. Look into self-talk: Yes, self-talk is the primary step toward self-confidence. Firstly, positive self-talk motivates, encourages, and fosters optimism. In addition, it shows compassion towards yourself. As a result, this practice leads to a positive attitude. You see, you understand what you have been through and who you are. Therefore, be kind to yourself. Tell yourself, ‘I can do it,’ ‘I can learn from my mistakes,’ or ‘Let’s try again.                                                                                                                       
2. Step out of your comfort zone: Staying in your comfort zone is easy. However, facing challenges and difficulties can help reduce your fear. Mr. Houpert said, ‘When you stop hiding parts of yourself, you will feel more confident in who you are.                                                                                                                                      
3. Work on your look: Have you ever heard? The first impression is the last. If you dress up nicely you will look and feel more confident. You should take care of yourself.                                                                                                                              
4. Visualize yourself as you want to be: When you visualize or imagine uncomfortable situations, you prepare yourself mentally and boost your confidence. Many successful people use visualization techniques to achieve their goals.                                                                                                                                                          
5. Take risks: You can’t build confidence by playing it safe. People who take risks, even if they sometimes fail, understand that this journey leads to success and they learn along the way. If you make a bad decision, find a solution or learn from it. Once Muhammad Ali Jinnah said:

                 “I do not believe in taking the right decision, I take a decision and make it right.”